Post edited at 3:06 pm on Oct. 15, 2008 by gdeeaz

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the fire we had before is now just bitter ashes
Left scattered on the floor

No offence to you or your grandma, I'm sure she deserves something liek this...

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Topic closed.

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First of all im a girl. I want it on the back of my neck. I hate my father and i dont want his(and my) last name on it. I jus dont really know what to do with it..

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If you don't want your father tattooed on you... that means you've got to get someone elses? If you don't want a tattoo of your father, don't get one, did anybody tell you to? As far as everything else goes, I really hope you're not getting it just to remember her, because that's how you made it sound, and if that's true, don't bother.

I know some people though legit respect that stuff and get it, for good reasons. So if that's you, do it. But don't initial it Mary J, that's diversifying the message. I like the person who said just getting a symbol would be more personal than your grandmother herself, that makes a lot of sense and could be really deep. Then again, people might ask about it even more, I don't know. I personally wouldn't get a tattoo of a loved one who has passed away.