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Someone Tell me I'm absolutely Normal and I will get better soon.

Replies: 7 — Last Post Oct. 11 5:39pm by Silenced Warrior

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( melodramatic )

Wealthy Hobo
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So I'm pretty much inwardly a really confident and fun person, But lately I've been having SO many problems communicating with people.

My mom passed away August 7th, And I have grieved A LOT, but it's also affecting other areas of my life I do believe.

Do you think this communication thing has something to do with it? How do I trust people? There's really nothing for me to hide. It's mostly hard to talk to people like my boyfriend and my family, People that are supposed to be really, really close. :/

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imakethetest66

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Are you scared of losing other people you care about? That tends to happen, and you push loved ones away. You're scared of something you love going away.

Just a thought.

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Its Bearsy Bitch

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you're absolutely Normal and I will get better soon

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and his name is ijustdontknow christ

runningwithscissors

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You're absolutely normal and you will get better soon.

But really, I'm sorry to hear about your Mum :( Thats horrible.

Perhaps you should talk to a counsellor?

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switchfoot52

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ur fine. u should really see a counsellor then u'll be even better. my friend died that same day. i really know how u feel. im still really upset about it and i don't know how my friends feel about it anymore. i've seen a counsellor once though and im going to go again this week

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( melodramatic )

Wealthy Hobo
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Quote: from imakethetest66 at 5:36 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

Are you scared of losing other people you care about? That tends to happen, and you push loved ones away. You're scared of something you love going away.
Just a thought.

That's probably it. Just people that are really close. It gets awkward with the bf though,I feel like I'm not much fun or something. I'm going to make Monday so much fun, ggaaah. i have to. I want to show him that I can be myself around him

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sabz

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When someone close to you passes away, of course it's going to affect your entire aspect on life. It's part of the grieving process. It's different for every person. Since you do recognize the problem, I'd just advise fixing it. Maybe having a heart to heart conversation with someone you're really close too, writing all of your feelings out on paper, or surrounding yourself with people you love and trust. If you ever need to talk, you can message me! Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon. :/ I'm sorry for your loss.

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Silenced Warrior

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That's a completely normal reaction to the incident. You become afraid of attachment out of fear of being hurt if you lose another person close to you. For some people it is only temporary but others hold on to it as a kind of defense mechanism.

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