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( babyeri2009 )
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Iight so the other day when I was cleaning my house. I found court papers from 1991-2007. My mom my whole life, had told me that I had the same father, as my two sisters. but it turned out she lied all 18 years of my life. I am not his. It clearly states on the paper, that I am not his. and after so long, they never even attempted to put my name on the papers. me and my mom never have had a great relationship, and this is just going to make it worse. My mom has told me shes wanted nothing to do with me, that she dont want to be in my life, and that Im a waste of her time.. me and her have never gotten along, but in the last 2-3 years its just got worse. and i cant stand it. shes always putting me down, yelling at me, cursing at me, and throwing shit at me. it makes me feel like im unwanted. sometimes i feel asheamed that im even alive, and i find it hard to talk about me and my moms relationship to people cause it will make me look bad, and make me look like im crazy. I just sit here and cry... and to me, crying is a weakness, it shows just how weak you are.... IDK what to do. IDK if i should find him, and talk to him, or leave it left unsaid. My step dad has been in my life since i was 4 months old. and i consider him my real dad, and i call him dad. He is the most amazing guy. and really i dont kno how he put up with stufff here. espically my mom after 18 years.and i feel if i do find out for sure if this guy (not my step dad) is the sperm donor, then my dad whos in my life for good. will get hurt. What should I do.
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I wish I was little kid again, skinned
knees are easier to fix then broken hearts.
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blufindr
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Some things are better left alone.
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20gees
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you should eat a snicker right now
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nicktodd
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Now or never. Think about your descendants, will they want to trace their true linage, etc.
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( babyeri2009 )
Quality Control Engineer
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Yeah true i guesss.
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I wish I was little kid again, skinned
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thatgirl95
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maybe u should try to look for him. also if u ever need someone to talk to about ur mom I am always here I know what u feel like my mom and I dont have the best relationship at times and sometimes she yells and curses at me to.
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I would leave it alone familial relationships need not be genetic to be real, your "real" dad is some sperm donor who needed a quick paycheck eighteen years ago. He has no idea who you are and has never tried to contact you, and contacting him and making a big deal out of this is going to hurt your father, who obviously loves you just as much as his other daughters. 
