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I just want a heads-up...
Replies: 7 — Last Post Sep. 7 5:04am by RahRahReplica
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Gah, the past two nights (tonight and last night) I have tried to talk to my boyfriend with no luck.  Last night I called and it continued to ring so I figured his mom would call and he would call me back...never got a call.  Then, tonight I call, and after ringing almost to the answering machine, one of his sisters that I guess woke up answers and tells me that he's not home, he's at a friend's.

What?  

I've had this talk with him lots of times before.  It's not that I need to know where what when and why all the time with his life, but I would like a heads up that we aren't going to talk so I don't spend my night waiting for a call that won't come.  It hurts me even more because I'm dealing a lot with homesickness right now, ESPECIALLY being away from him, and my pms is making me a little more emotional than usual....Why can't he be decent enough to call with a "Hi, gone this weekend, talk to when I get home, love you."  That's ALL I need.

       

...He's such a butthead sometimes....

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Brawler


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people don't realize how much little things they do can harm or help the ones that care about them.

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scalywag66


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one question, do you do that for him?
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Quote: from scalywag66 at 10:34 pm on Sep. 6, 2008
one question, do you do that for him?

Yes, I do.  And despite saying that we won't be able to talk, I sometimes find a way or time to talk to him.

There's always a 50/50 chance he'll call me as it is when he says he will...it's not really too much to ask for a 2 minute phone call is it?

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nik1


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Guys often back off when they have been trained and conditioned that their gf will do it for them.  He knows you are going to call but his mind is on something else right now.  If my gf called my home and got my family out of bed I would be furious.  Relax.....don't call him.  If he doesn't call you then you have your answer about how he feels about you.
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RahRahReplica


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If you keep calling him he's just going to think "Why should I bother calling her? She'll call me soon most likely."

He's taking you for granted. Really, get out more, get busy. Then he'll start wondering where you are and eventually he'll realise that he's gonna have to start calling you.

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Quote: from RahRahReplica at 4:46 am on Sep. 7, 2008
If you keep calling him he's just going to think "Why should I bother calling her? She'll call me soon most likely."

He's taking you for granted. Really, get out more, get busy. Then he'll start wondering where you are and eventually he'll realise that he's gonna have to start calling you.

This would be a good route of action. Any guy who gives half a crap will start to wonder.

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Quote: from mcodeath at 11:30 am on Sep. 7, 2008
Quote: from RahRahReplica at 4:46 am on Sep. 7, 2008
If you keep calling him he's just going to think "Why should I bother calling her? She'll call me soon most likely."

He's taking you for granted. Really, get out more, get busy. Then he'll start wondering where you are and eventually he'll realise that he's gonna have to start calling you.

 

This would be a good route of action. Any guy who gives half a crap will start to wonder.

Why thank you. :)

Post edited at 5:04 am on Sep. 7, 2008 by RahRahReplica

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