How do you know if someone is smart unless you give them a chance? People excel in different areas, so whereas you may think someone is "smart" in one respect ... they could be so ignorant and narrow minded in others.
If you know its a flaw in you then try to change it?
Its fine not to 'click' with people right away, most dont. But you get past it by giving chances, surely
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