Post edited at 4:55 pm on July 15, 2009 by Anonymous

Post edited at 4:55 pm on July 15, 2009 by Anonymous

I don't know how you broke up, but you're probably best off sending her an email telling her you're sorry, you made a huge mistake, you always think about her, you stopped dating that other girl, etc.. just tell her exactly how you feel.

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the world was built on a tickle between our legs

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You should definitely stop dating this new girl. You're just stringing her along, and that's not fair.

I don't know how you broke up, but you're probably best off sending her an email telling her you're sorry, you made a huge mistake, you always think about her, you stopped dating that other girl, etc.. just tell her exactly how you feel.

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Well..she doesn't know me and this girl are dating..she assumes we are..but we haven't really told anyone we are dating.

-Don't have contact with your ex while you have a girlfriend. That will only hurt your current girl, and probably make you look like a giant prick.

-Why did you and your ex break up in the first place? Remember that reason, and think about if it's any different now.

-If you think you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend and you want to contact her, spare your current girlfriends feelings and break up with her. Tell her that you jumped into the relationship too soon, and that you're sorry, and be sure to tell her how great she is. Just DON'T get involved with your ex at all, until this other girl's heart is off the line.

Good luck.

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I'm so high, tonight, and I don't feel like coming down.
I could lie to you all my day, you're the one, you're the one
and I'm a fool for waiting so long to let you know.
Come around, come around, come around to me..

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Quote: from Go Steph Go at 6:00 pm on July 2, 2009

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I would say break up with this new girl if you're having these feelings.  If you wanted to see if she was the one you wanted, you did and you want her.  If she wants to go back out with you, go for it.  You guys obviously worked for 2 1/2 years.

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The thing is, we fought EVERYDAY...and when I told her i didnt want to date anymore, she thought it was cause we fought so much, and she said she would stop fighting. But i mean...relationships have fights..no matter what.

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Then you should start by being distant friends with your ex, then taking it from there.

It's not fair to the girl your with now though if your heart is somewhere else.

Do yourself a favor: see where she is in life. Is she with a guy whom she's happy with, in a place where she is not wanting a relationship or is she out on the look for a guy. If she's someone who you feel would accept you back into her life, or would she brush you aside as being someone who needs to be expelled. Try to get in contact with the simplest of intentions to just be friends and see if anything happens. If you think the party is able to be there, go for it by all means.

Regarding your current girlfriend, you should reconsider it all. If you're thinking about another girl while with her, consider what this means for her? It means that you're not having the connection that holds you there, you're not having having a quality life with her and I know that I personally wouldn't keep something you're thinking beyond already.

I'm hoping that you get something out of this. I hope that you get a second chance with the first girl and I wish you the best of luck.

Allen