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I'm not gonna lie. It does get me upset.
Replies: 12Last Post July 8 2:43pm by mikeyp123
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The fact that I've never had a boyfriend before. I'm a 17 year old girl, and I know, it's not all that bad. But sometimes, it really does feel like the end of the world, when my friends are getting boyfriends left and right.

I feel so left out, and that's the honest truth.

I'm pretty sure my issue is that I push people away, and am scared to let people get close to me. I learned that the hard way this summer.

I'd like to think that now that I have acknowledged it, and stopped (well, attempted), I will find someone that is right for me.

But things don't typically go my way, so I would not be surprised if a year from now, I was sitting at my computer desk, typing the same thing I am now.

I don't know. I shouldn't be that worried about it, but it secretly breaks my heart everytime my friends gush about their crushes/boyfriends. I am happy for them, but sad at the same time.

A friend of mine came one of the clubs I go to, and as luck would have it, a new guy was there. He is very attractive, smart, and sweet. He asked for her number, and ever since then, we literally see him around town twice a week.

It's like...stuff falls into my friend's laps. It's so easy for them.  


2:27 pm on July 8, 2008
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you'll find someone
there's someone out there  for you

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that dude 16


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You don't need a boyfriend to go out.... it could just be a guy friend, or a girl if you're into that.

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ya, im 14 and I fell in love with a boy who is my best friend, told him, and our friendship didnt change, but when he broke up with his gf, he started going out with my enimy, and she treats me like shit, and he dont care so it hurts worse. You will get a bf=D Theres the right guy out there for everyone

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i used to be the same, but its funny when its right you know, dont waste your time on any guys, just wait and you wont regret it.

dont feel left out, nothing better than keeping yourself for the guy who will actually love you. Dont compromise yourself, if you want to be defensive then do that, but when the right guy does come along, be sure to open up.

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startergirl13


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well here is how i look at situations like that...... god has a plan for everybody his plans are different for certain people... just take it one step at a time and then eventually your time will come...

did that help you out at all?

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Quote: from startergirl13 at 2:31 pm on July 8, 2008

well here is how i look at situations like that...... god has a plan for everybody his plans are different for certain people... just take it one step at a time and then eventually your time will come...

did that help you out at all?


Well, I'm not sure if I believe in the "God has a plan for everyone" thing. I am a Christian though.

But on that subject, why do I have to be the one he has a plan for? Why can't I find the right one by sorting through a bunch of the wrong ones?

At this point, I just want the experience of teenage love. I don't want the NOTEBOOK.


2:33 pm on July 8, 2008
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Instead of complaining why don't you do something about it? Flirt alot more around guys.. be confident not shy and make the first line of conversation. Why don't you ask for guys numbers instead of expecting it to fall into your lap? Why push people away, instead embrace them.. let them in, be more social and explore a bit more - don't be afraid to take risks..

You do that and you'll have a boyfriend in no time.

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Quote: from subway at 2:34 pm on July 8, 2008

Instead of complaining why don't you do something about it? Flirt alot more around guys.. be confident not shy and make the first line of conversation. Why don't you ask for guys numbers instead of expecting it to fall into your lap? Why push people away, instead embrace them.. let them in, be more social and explore a bit more - don't be afraid to take risks..

You do that and you'll have a boyfriend in no time.


I do try. I don't just sit on my ass, as it may seem. I'm not the slightest bit shy.

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2:34 pm on July 8, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:34 pm on July 8, 2008

Quote: from subway at 2:34 pm on July 8, 2008

Instead of complaining why don't you do something about it? Flirt alot more around guys.. be confident not shy and make the first line of conversation. Why don't you ask for guys numbers instead of expecting it to fall into your lap? Why push people away, instead embrace them.. let them in, be more social and explore a bit more - don't be afraid to take risks..  

You do that and you'll have a boyfriend in no time.


I do try. I don't just sit on my ass, as it may seem. I'm not the slightest bit shy.


Could we PM? Theres some stuff that could be said in private.

You don't have to though.

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don't feel bad, my friends have theire very first REAL boyfriends and i ALREADY feel this way...

just don't get too desperate, because then BAD things happen...

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Dont stress over it. Just let things fall into place. You'll find someone eventually, there's really no rush.

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If you need to talk about it, just pm me, I read this and basically it described everything i've ever felt about this subject / still do.

We'll pull through yoyo :)

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