Quote: from Fire37 at 2:51 pm on July 8, 2008
i was confused for a while too about my sexuality. But you really dont need to call yourself anything. If anyone asks, just say that you like who you like. That's what I do. As for the parent thing, well I've been there too. When my mom found out she called me everything she could think of and it still hurts to this day. Nothing can ever erase pain like that. If I were you, I would keep in the closet until you move out. Only tell a few close friends. I know it seems difficult, but you dont want your parents to disown you or kick you out. 
thanks everyone for the replies (fire too :-)!