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Orgasm from sex versus masturbation
Replies: 9Last Post July 19 12:27pm by MyFavoriteAccident
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It's strange... I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation... however, if I do it when I'm with my boyfriend (not during actual vaginal intercourse because I can't do that), I end up crying after an orgasm.  I always do, it's just something my body does afterwards.  If I don't orgasm, no tears.

But through masturbation (which I do very rarely, so maybe that's why), it's nothing.  I get it over with, I think nothing of it, and I have NEVER come close to shedding a tear...

QUESTION: Anyone have a noticeable difference between the two?

Ideally is there anyone else that has the same problem I do, and any theories as to why?  Maybe it's just the emotional connection or something -__-'... who knows. lol.


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yes there is a diffrents. lol
i cry too sometimes, its soo werid.

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i think you just get very emotional xx lol it is a bit weird...

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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 11:42 am on July 19, 2008

It's strange... I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation... however, if I do it when I'm with my boyfriend (not during actual vaginal intercourse because I can't do that), I end up crying after an orgasm. I always do, it's just something my body does afterwards. If I don't orgasm, no tears.

But through masturbation (which I do very rarely, so maybe that's why), it's nothing. I get it over with, I think nothing of it, and I have NEVER come close to shedding a tear...

QUESTION: Anyone have a noticeable difference between the two?

Ideally is there anyone else that has the same problem I do, and any theories as to why? Maybe it's just the emotional connection or something -__-'... who knows. lol.


I remember crying after a really intense orgasm. My partner thought he did something wrong. It was just really, really intense. (And also my first g-spot orgasm)

Personally I do believe it has a lot to do with the emotional connection.
Plus during masturbation you are 100% in control.

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crying after sex, is more common than many think. It has to do with the emotional connection you make with you and your partner. During mastertbation one is with herself, no emotions are needed to connect with someone. Reaching an orgasim during inercourse is the highpoint of a sexual encounter with someone. Crying after is the body's way of telling you the emotional expeience you just had was exiliharting.
            ---Womans Magazine.

(if you have anymore wuestions i have the hole article. Thats just part, message me)

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i understand that...have you tried positions which you can stimulate your clit in and also have intercourse?  like, him lying on his side and your legs over where his thingy is so you can lie on your back and still stimulate your clit.  that's what i do coz i can't orgasm without clit stimulation either

the crying thing - i get that sometimes after i've masturbated...like, if i've had an arguement with my bf or i really miss him...i'll masturbate over him and then burst out crying like omg i miss him so much, i wish he was here kinda thing...

i've never done it after sex though...i tend to just fall asleep lol, but i've felt like crying during/after because i've thought "omg, amazing...totally in love and this is forever" and stuff


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Quote: from sisof2cnc at 11:47 am on July 19, 2008

crying after sex, is more common than many think. It has to do with the emotional connection you make with you and your partner. During mastertbation one is with herself, no emotions are needed to connect with someone. Reaching an orgasim during inercourse is the highpoint of a sexual encounter with someone. Crying after is the body's way of telling you the emotional expeience you just had was exiliharting.  
  ---Womans Magazine.  

(if you have anymore wuestions i have the hole article. Thats just part, message me)


Haha, alright, I figured that's what it was.  I know crying after an orgasm is not abnormal, because there are a great deal of hormonal changes involved which makes you more susceptible... but I just thought it was weird that it only happens through sex and not masturbation.

Thanks :).


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Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 2:52 pm on July 19, 2008

Quote: from sisof2cnc at 11:47 am on July 19, 2008

crying after sex, is more common than many think. It has to do with the emotional connection you make with you and your partner. During mastertbation one is with herself, no emotions are needed to connect with someone. Reaching an orgasim during inercourse is the highpoint of a sexual encounter with someone. Crying after is the body's way of telling you the emotional expeience you just had was exiliharting.
             ---Womans Magazine.

 (if you have anymore wuestions i have the hole article. Thats just part, message me)


Haha, alright, I figured that's what it was. I know crying after an orgasm is not abnormal, because there are a great deal of hormonal changes involved which makes you more susceptible... but I just thought it was weird that it only happens through sex and not masturbation.

Thanks :).


no problem! :)

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Quote: from misscharity at 1:44 pm on July 19, 2008

yes there is a diffrents. lol
i cry too sometimes, its soo werid.


lolzx i dont know really but i never cry

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I've cried too.

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