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This situation sucks.
Replies: 12Last Post Aug. 30 1:11pm by Lillylove
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( crushdarling )


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This boy and I liked each other. He was going to ask me out, but then said that he couldn't get over how old I am (he's 19, I've just turned 17).
So now we're just occasionally friends-with-benefits, but I want to be more, and I drop hints to him about it but he never seems to pick up on it.
Any advice on what I should do?  

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XXeasysuicideXX


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just be straight forward about it with him...be like hey i like you is this ever gonna go ne farther or what?...something like that just do it at an appropriate time

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apetape


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If he can't get over how old you are, I think that that is just a lame excuse.

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patience is key =D

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musicfan3


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Friends with Benefits never work out. Theres always issues such as he might feel the same way you do and jealousy. Plus you get attached.  

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plumc0la


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That is not a huge age difference... really.

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7hir7een


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I'm sorry to tell you, but it's unlikely that he wants the relationship to go farther.  By giving him the option to take you as a friend with benefits, he's probably not going to confine himself by getting into a relationship with you.

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This has been a complete intelligence failure of massive proportions.

Has the Large Hadron Collider destroyed the earth yet?

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LEONIDOS

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talk to him see how he feels drop the friends with benifits bit.

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GIVE THEM NOTHING BUT TAKE FROM THEM EVERYTHING

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MakingaDifference001


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Quote: from 7hir7een at 6:54 pm on Aug. 29, 2008

I'm sorry to tell you, but it's unlikely that he wants the relationship to go farther. By giving him the option to take you as a friend with benefits, he's probably not going to confine himself by getting into a relationship with you.

I concur.  

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Micus


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Ask if sometime you could just hang out, and not have sex.

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( crushdarling )


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haha yeah, I just found it ironic that he wasn't able to get over my age to ask me out YET he easily overlooks my age to be friend with benefits :P
(guess I'm just going to have to gather up the courage to ask him about it)

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musicfan3


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I say dump him completely lol.

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Lillylove


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Give up for now on trying to develop a relationship. However, if he is good sex, use him as much and as often as you can or want and wait for the next one to come along. Guys use girls for the sex, there's no reason you can't do the same with him once you realize it isn't going to go anyplace and are satisfied with that.

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