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Most men would love my situation.
but not me.
Replies: 12Last Post Aug. 28 6:47am by nikki123
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I know a lot of guys would absolutely love a fuck-buddy. A friend-with-benefits.

But I don't.

This amazing girl i've been dating for two years is causing me some problems. She absolutely loved me until the last two months. I don't know why, she started slowly telling me that she doesn't love me as so much as before.

Then, she asked for a break. we took one, but she came back talking to me in 2 days. Then, I forced her to take a longer "break" of about one week, to let her some room to think everything through. It was a week long only, rather than my two months of planned time because she DESPERATELY needed to talk  to me and she missed me.

BUT, when she talked to me, she asked if we could be friends with benefits. WTF?! You miss me, you say you "sort of love" me, you want me to talk to you a lot, YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX, but after two damn years of a good relationship, you want to do this without emotions involved?
WTF.

I need help. Why is she acting like this, does anyone know? We're very open to each other, but she tells me she doesn't know why she's acting like this. She's asian/17 years old.


6:00 am on Aug. 28, 2008
MoneyMan99


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Well that explains it shes asian

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Permious

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She obviously doesn't like you any more but doesn't have anyone else to fuck so you'll do in the meantime. You should just do the decent thing and have sex with her whenever she wants and forget about the possiblity of you two having a real relationship again.

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she has very mixed feelings. she probably stopped loving you but still has loving feelings for you because you were so close and had a good relationship for so long. and probably misses the sex. i think you should distance yourself from her for a little while. if you don't want to be friends with benefits tell her that you either want to be together properly or be just friends, not somewhere in between.

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MoneyMan99


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Quote: from Permious at 6:02 am on Aug. 28, 2008

She obviously doesn't like you any more but doesn't have anyone else to fuck so you'll do in the meantime. You should just do the decent thing and have sex with her whenever she wants and forget about the possiblity of you two having a real relationship again.

That is the first time i have heard a woman condone a friends with benefits situation

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she is just confused....

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LEONIDOS

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TELL HER YOU WANT RELATIONSHIP OR NOTHING

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Quote: from Permious at 6:02 am on Aug. 28, 2008

She obviously doesn't like you any more but doesn't have anyone else to fuck so you'll do in the meantime. You should just do the decent thing and have sex with her whenever she wants and forget about the possiblity of you two having a real relationship again.

Nope,
we're very open to each other. She tells me everything when i ask her to. She doesn't care THAT much about sex as much as about my conversations and hugs with her.


6:06 am on Aug. 28, 2008
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Quote: from MoneyMan99 at 6:01 am on Aug. 28, 2008

Well that explains it shes asian

LMFAO

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Quote: from Permious at 6:02 am on Aug. 28, 2008

She obviously doesn't like you any more but doesn't have anyone else to fuck so you'll do in the meantime. You should just do the decent thing and have sex with her whenever she wants and forget about the possiblity of you two having a real relationship again.

I don't think she's that shallow. Maybe she thinks she wants to leave, but subconciously wants you back. She wants to have sex again because she wants to feel a connection, I guess, and when that connection gets stronger you guys'll go back out again.

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Quote: from ErnestoTheTrippyOne at 6:15 am on Aug. 28, 2008

I don't think she's that shallow. Maybe she thinks she wants to leave, but subconciously wants you back. She wants to have sex again because she wants to feel a connection, I guess, and when that connection gets stronger you guys'll go back out again.


She isn't shallow at all. Thx for your response, i hope that is the case.

Keep them coming, i'd like to hear many more opinions.


6:18 am on Aug. 28, 2008
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Quote: from MoneyMan99 at 6:01 am on Aug. 28, 2008

Well that explains it shes asian

Who onthe first date you meet their parents...

It doesn't explain it, it makes it werider.

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nikki123


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i had a similar situation with an ex. we had sex a few times after we broke up but i felt guilty and eventually i told her that we had to stop

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