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Sharing Room with Roommate
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Replies: 13Last Post May 3 11:45am by Raymond
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but both?!!!

Post edited at 11:04 pm on May 27, 2008 by PennyandMe


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Orgy?

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liamphotographer


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just try to be respectful and give each other space

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yesnoyes


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can't you take turns to stay at your boyfriends'

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get your own appartment

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lol

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get earplugs

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missmess


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do your boyfriends have houses?

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NakedSun

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I dunno - I'm about to be in a situation where I'm moving in with two other girls, one has a boyfriend, one doesn't.
I have a boyfriend as well.
I think it's just about respect and keeping quiet since you know other people live there.

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You just have to get over that idea that all sex has to be done in complete privacy. We just made the agreement that one or  both of us could have our boy friends in and staying over.    By the time you are in college you should be getting over that modesty. It doesn't have to be a party or orgy, we didn't do that. We each just went about our business and agreed that the covering sheets were optional.

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Quote: from PinkLotus at 6:48 pm on April 6, 2008

Orgy?


But seriously, college people tend to not give a shit if you said "hey we are going to fuck tonight so just fyi" - they would simply say ok have fun. If they didn't want to be there then they'd go out. If they didn't care, oh well.

That's college life for ya, you aren't the only one in your situation. You gotta do what you gotta do.

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diver06


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My roommate and I both have boyfriends and they are both over quite a bit.  We have managed to make this work and the four of us get along well... the guys even sleep in our room a lot of the time but sex isn't even in the equation when we're all here so i have to agree with:
Quote: from yesnoyes at 3:49 pm on April 6, 2008

can't you take turns to stay at your boyfriends'

and if this would help the situation then go for it!

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Quote: from diver06 at 10:41 pm on April 18, 2008

My roommate and I both have boyfriends and they are both over quite a bit.  We have managed to make this work and the four of us get along well... the guys even sleep in our room a lot of the time but sex isn't even in the equation when we're all here so i have to agree with:
Quote: from yesnoyes at 3:49 pm on April 6, 2008

can't you take turns to stay at your boyfriends'

and if this would help the situation then go for it!

So you both communicate well about this, like say "Hey, my BF is staying the night." OR "Hey, we want some private time tonight. Is that ok?"

Is it awkward to have all 4 sleeping in the same room??  Has there ever been a time when you heard stuff you didnt want to?  Like obviously sex is a no-no, but what if they are heavily making out?


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Raymond


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Quote: from diver06 at 10:41 pm on April 18, 2008My roommate and I both have boyfriends and they are both over quite a bit.  We have managed to make this work and the four of us get along well... the guys even sleep in our room a lot of the time but sex isn't even in the equation when we're all here.

You are missing a lot by saying you don't have sex when you four are there at the same time .  Nothing makes sex hotter and  more exciting than having another couple doing it in the same room. By college age sex shouldn't have to be only in secrecy.


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