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tough situation. You need to ask yourself deep down if you really love him and want to be with him thru the bad and the good. I have heard plenty of fairytale stories of couples who had it rough early on and went on to have a great marriage and successful life.
You could be stressed now with uni so I would wait until you are more relaxed to think things through and maybe you should take advice from some1 else as well.
Also talk to your husband and try to tell him how you feel.
Good luk

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good idea this is a good idea do what vitusinternus says its a pritty good idea.

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You live then die its what you do in life that matters.

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Quote: from VirtusInternus at 2:49 am on Oct. 16, 2006

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tough situation. You need to ask yourself deep down if you really love him and want to be with him thru the bad and the good. I have heard plenty of fairytale stories of couples who had it rough early on and went on to have a great marriage and successful life.  
 You could be stressed now with uni so I would wait until you are more relaxed to think things through and maybe you should take advice from some1 else as well.  
 Also talk to your husband and try to tell him how you feel.  
 Good luk

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good idea this is a good idea do what vitusinternus says its a pritty good idea.

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you like saying good idea don't you? You said it 3 times in a rather badly constructed sentence

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Cunt

http://www.lemonlawamerica.com/

Do you know if there is anything like this in the UK?  If so, take him to court.  

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Even if I'm the only one laughing its still worth doing.  
Because, in a world of moral ambiguity, laughter, though
fleeting, is the only certainty.

As for your situation, man thats a tough one.  I think the one thing which is helping you is your family.  I'm happy that you have a place to stay, and its also hard to ask for help or admitt you need help.  The only advice I have to stay is build from this point.  You can't dispair about what has already happened, but move on.  I know it sounds cruel and sometimes you may have a breakdown and thats fine, but don't let it control your life.  Also I don't know what you are in college, I'm assuming a sophmore or junior.  Either way I would continue my studies if its not too financially taxing, or take off a year and work.  If you need any reasurance or even just a person to vent to you can always message me.

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"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former." - Albert Einstein (1879-1955)

Remember, it's not a gift. It's a loan. You'll have to pay it back. But it is a chance to get on your feet. You really need to suck up your pride and use the hand that's being offered to you. Because it doesn't sound like you're going to fix this financial problem on your own -- since neither of you sound like you have any income at all pretty much. And from the sounds of it, the money is what you fight over most and what stresses you both out the most.

So you can continue to fight and try and do it on your own, which hasn't worked out yet and won't probably work out for a while and your relationship will continue to deteriorate from the stress.

Or.

You can suck it up, realize you need help, you can't do it on your own, take the help being offered to you while it's still possible to fix your relationship and get out of the slump. And get back on your feet. And then pay back every penny of the money and get her some flowers to boot and thank her for saving you. And maybe in 5 or 6 months things will be 10x better and it will because of that.

Or you can just get divorced and move on.

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Holly.
Mama to Hunter Kai